Can't go beyond petting

[EmotionalGeek]

I met girl and I was on about 5 dates with her. On third date I kissed her (bit late, I know). On 4th and 5th we kissed passionately and I was able to play with her ****oris -- she was real wet -- I could touch her breast under her bra but whenever I tried to insert a finger or take off bra she stopped me.

Dating wise she invest -- prepared dinner for me, invited to her sister birthday, buys wine, she bought Christmas present for me etc.

From one side she is looking like good LTR material and she wants me to be her BF but on the other I can't get sex. I want to give her few more dates before I say goodbye. Do you have similar experiences and can advice something?

 

[Billtx49]

If you got to the point of fingering third base and she put up LMR, she’s either keeping her other options open, or you're not escalating properly regarding procedure, time, or isolation to a place that she feels comfortable with.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Sounds like strange, probably manipulative, behavior that I don't feel like figuring out.

 

[Reykhel]

Vodka

 

[lizardking82]

Absolutely. I think you got a nice one here. Tread calmly. You lead the situation where you want. She takes your finger away, you let it go, you sit her down and kiss for a while, caress her, take it easy. A while later, you try again. If she refuses again, you change the subject. Women like a man who knows sooner or later, he is gonna get what he wants. Do not give up with the first try when other signs are positive. This girl likes you, she just doesn't wanna give it up very early on. Whatever the reasons, the fact she makes dinner and invites you out...man, you don't know how hard it is to find a girl who is creative and makes things. Keep her around and progress calmly, report here for any other happenings in other dates.

 

[IAmNoob]

Guys at that point I'm pretty convinced she is a virgin. I think that's why she gives so much LMR.