Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'm about the same as you: around 135lbs and about 6'2. Except a few years younger, thankfully. I agree with just about everything you said, except the "no cardio" thing. Its bullsh!t. You should always do cardio, no matter what your goals are. It keeps you defined. You could be 170lbs and look like 200lbs, simply because your body-fat percentage is low.JoeMarron said:Haha you think you have it bad, I'm worse off at 6'2 135. We simply have to EAT MORE FOOD. Krueg's advice with 3 to 4000 calories would make it impossible for you not to gain weight. If you find that you cant eat that much then use high calorie shakes. Buy some coconut oil and eat it like peanut butter. Eat a ton of chicken breasts or some other meat every day so you'll get enough protein to gain muscle. 4 times a week at the gym is unnecessary, I'd drop it down to two or three. I really like this guy's philosophy to training and I've been doing bodyweight exercices with good results http://baye.com/high-intensity-training-blog/ but it can also be applied to any other type of exercise. NEVER DO CARDIO, especially when you're trying to gain weight. Good luck to you. Your success comes down to being disciplined enough to consistently put in the work. I had the right information but wasn't consistent which is why I'm still lighter than you lol
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
The only people who should be doing cardio is those who actually like doing it. It's simply an inefficient way to burn fat. Do a circuit of bodyweight exercises until your muscles give out, do some high intensity strength training, do tabata sprints, all of these will be far more effective and quicker at burning fat and working the cardiovascular system than running a few miles or any other form of typical cardio workouts.Eph said:I'm about the same as you: around 135lbs and about 6'2. Except a few years younger, thankfully. I agree with just about everything you said, except the "no cardio" thing. Its bullsh!t. You should always do cardio, no matter what your goals are. It keeps you defined. You could be 170lbs and look like 200lbs, simply because your body-fat percentage is low.
As long as you consume more calories than you burn, you will gain weight. The only thing cardio does is burn fat. However, the thing about cardio is if you don't keep building your muscles, cardio can kill your muscle growth.
So, do cardio while eating like crazy, but make sure that cardio is burning fat and not the muscles you're trying to grow.
First of all your life will be much easier with a good blender and this http://www.amazon.com/Nuwave-20322-...ie=UTF8&qid=1395025755&sr=8-2&keywords=nuwave. You can cook a ton of stuff in there that would take all day in a regular oven and of course a blender for making protein shakes. Buy a ton of frozen fruit and veggies, some nuts or seeds, some heavy cream or coconut milk from a can, and some coconut oil, toss all of this in the blender and you could easily make a shake with 1000+ calories and a good amount of protein. Throw a bunch of bacon in the nuwave and in 10 mins you'll have even more calories and protein.Can you tell me a fast and good breakfast?
Ok, im going to try it. Yeah things in a regular oven take long to cook.JoeMarron said:First of all your life will be much easier with a good blender and this http://www.amazon.com/Nuwave-20322-...ie=UTF8&qid=1395025755&sr=8-2&keywords=nuwave. You can cook a ton of stuff in there that would take all day in a regular oven and of course a blender for making protein shakes. Buy a ton of frozen fruit and veggies, some nuts or seeds, some heavy cream or coconut milk from a can, and some coconut oil, toss all of this in the blender and you could easily make a shake with 1000+ calories and a good amount of protein. Throw a bunch of bacon in the nuwave and in 10 mins you'll have even more calories and protein.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yeah, im going to buy a weight gainer or make shakes with lots of calories, this will help.ChalengeGuyFan said:You'll be suprised how much you have to eat to reach the 3000 mark.
Use a smartphone app to keep track.
I always thought i ate a lot and couldnt understand why i couldnt gain, but people said to me a few times that i dont eat a lot. LolPurefilth said:I have to hit the 4500 mark now to gain. It's a struggle sometimes bit I'm eating every couple of hours and training hard.
I was 78kg and thought I was a hard gainer. But eating like a lion has gotten me up to 104kg that's over 225lb . I'm 6'4" and about 12% body fat now.
Eat eat eat. Serious Mass by optimum nutrition was the shake I used at the start before I got my diet figured out. It's the shiit. Trust me. You will gain.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I said sometimes i dont have time.[S]alvatore said:If you don't have time to cook food and eat it, you're not going to get big. Easy doesn't work with training/bodybuilding.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.