"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Can't Figure This Girl Out!

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MurdocNiccals

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Basically I really have no ****ing clue wtf is up with her... See if you guys can figure this one out.

She's a virgin/VERY sexually inexperienced. Goes on and on about other girls being sluts, how she's not a slut, her best friends (who I am also close with) say she's not the type to have sex with guys etc. etc. However she's kind of flirty with guys sometimes...

Anyway, I asked her over for a "movie", she said yes to me, I made it pretty damn obvious I wanted to do more than watch a movie with her, she goes along with it... Find out just now from her Facebook profile that she's in a relationship?!?! WTF. She never even told me!

It's a total contradiction of her personality! I've known her for years too! I don't think she's sexually intimate with her boyfriend.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why are you asking us? Why don't you ask her then people here can help you figure out her explanation.
 
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MurdocNiccals

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I'm more looking for an explanation of why she's doing what she's doing, I want to try to understand it.
 
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All we could do is guess Bro. If she's so nieve then maybe she doesn't know you meant more than a movie. Ya she flirts but for girls like that they just think that's a thing you do and don't really understand what's going on.
 
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she is now in a relationship...with you!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MurdocNiccals

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GameOfNoGame said:
maybe she doesn't know you meant more than a movie.
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Haha no chance, she knows what I want definitely, and she still agreed to come to my place alone.
 
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