"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Can't Figure This Girl Out!

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MurdocNiccals

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Basically I really have no ****ing clue wtf is up with her... See if you guys can figure this one out.

She's a virgin/VERY sexually inexperienced. Goes on and on about other girls being sluts, how she's not a slut, her best friends (who I am also close with) say she's not the type to have sex with guys etc. etc. However she's kind of flirty with guys sometimes...

Anyway, I asked her over for a "movie", she said yes to me, I made it pretty damn obvious I wanted to do more than watch a movie with her, she goes along with it... Find out just now from her Facebook profile that she's in a relationship?!?! WTF. She never even told me!

It's a total contradiction of her personality! I've known her for years too! I don't think she's sexually intimate with her boyfriend.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why are you asking us? Why don't you ask her then people here can help you figure out her explanation.
 
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MurdocNiccals

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I'm more looking for an explanation of why she's doing what she's doing, I want to try to understand it.
 
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All we could do is guess Bro. If she's so nieve then maybe she doesn't know you meant more than a movie. Ya she flirts but for girls like that they just think that's a thing you do and don't really understand what's going on.
 
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she is now in a relationship...with you!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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GameOfNoGame said:
maybe she doesn't know you meant more than a movie.
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Haha no chance, she knows what I want definitely, and she still agreed to come to my place alone.
 
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