"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Can't Figure This Girl Out!

MurdocNiccals

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Basically I really have no ****ing clue wtf is up with her... See if you guys can figure this one out.

She's a virgin/VERY sexually inexperienced. Goes on and on about other girls being sluts, how she's not a slut, her best friends (who I am also close with) say she's not the type to have sex with guys etc. etc. However she's kind of flirty with guys sometimes...

Anyway, I asked her over for a "movie", she said yes to me, I made it pretty damn obvious I wanted to do more than watch a movie with her, she goes along with it... Find out just now from her Facebook profile that she's in a relationship?!?! WTF. She never even told me!

It's a total contradiction of her personality! I've known her for years too! I don't think she's sexually intimate with her boyfriend.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GameOfNoGame

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Why are you asking us? Why don't you ask her then people here can help you figure out her explanation.
 

MurdocNiccals

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I'm more looking for an explanation of why she's doing what she's doing, I want to try to understand it.
 

GameOfNoGame

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All we could do is guess Bro. If she's so nieve then maybe she doesn't know you meant more than a movie. Ya she flirts but for girls like that they just think that's a thing you do and don't really understand what's going on.
 

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she is now in a relationship...with you!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MurdocNiccals

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GameOfNoGame said:
maybe she doesn't know you meant more than a movie.
Haha no chance, she knows what I want definitely, and she still agreed to come to my place alone.
 
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