"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Can't Figure This Girl Out!

MurdocNiccals

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Basically I really have no ****ing clue wtf is up with her... See if you guys can figure this one out.

She's a virgin/VERY sexually inexperienced. Goes on and on about other girls being sluts, how she's not a slut, her best friends (who I am also close with) say she's not the type to have sex with guys etc. etc. However she's kind of flirty with guys sometimes...

Anyway, I asked her over for a "movie", she said yes to me, I made it pretty damn obvious I wanted to do more than watch a movie with her, she goes along with it... Find out just now from her Facebook profile that she's in a relationship?!?! WTF. She never even told me!

It's a total contradiction of her personality! I've known her for years too! I don't think she's sexually intimate with her boyfriend.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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GameOfNoGame

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Why are you asking us? Why don't you ask her then people here can help you figure out her explanation.
 

MurdocNiccals

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I'm more looking for an explanation of why she's doing what she's doing, I want to try to understand it.
 

GameOfNoGame

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All we could do is guess Bro. If she's so nieve then maybe she doesn't know you meant more than a movie. Ya she flirts but for girls like that they just think that's a thing you do and don't really understand what's going on.
 

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she is now in a relationship...with you!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MurdocNiccals

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GameOfNoGame said:
maybe she doesn't know you meant more than a movie.
Haha no chance, she knows what I want definitely, and she still agreed to come to my place alone.
 
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