My school is having a dance in the next three weeks or so and i absolutely cannot dance. I really want to learn, especially because there are new grade nines in my school this year, and i want to make an impression. Anyone got any tips, websites or links on how to dance/grind club style or whatever?
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This is easy. Just do what they do in the porn movies, but with your clothes on.saber101 said:grind club style or whatever?
just follow the girls movements, she'll lead you when grinding. press your groin against her ass and go with her movements, if shes moving her hips side to side, move yours with hers in sequence.
watch other people do it, i still dont think im that great at it either, just try to relax and have fun....or if you cant do that try some liquid confidence before the dance.
watch other people do it, i still dont think im that great at it either, just try to relax and have fun....or if you cant do that try some liquid confidence before the dance.
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listen to the music, its more important than copying others, do it with confidence like you know what youre doing and it'll be fine.
lol good adviceMr_rogers said:This is easy. Just do what they do in the porn movies, but with your clothes on.
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^^^ hahahahaha, yes, liquid confidance works
bottom line is, nobody really gives a fuk how you dance, unless youre an aboslute retard, as long as you seem to be moving rhytmically its fine
girls will not care unless your either really really good, in which case theyll just comment on how good you are, nothign more, or really really Mr.Bean like
bottom line is, nobody really gives a fuk how you dance, unless youre an aboslute retard, as long as you seem to be moving rhytmically its fine
girls will not care unless your either really really good, in which case theyll just comment on how good you are, nothign more, or really really Mr.Bean like
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Its easy
Dude...its easy to dance
Get that in your head
Every song has a rythm , something like
1 2 1 2 .... or 1 1 2 ...
move your body according to the beats
later when you feel a bit more comfortable , start going along with the vocals
First and foremost make your self comfortable on the dance floor
Have fun while you're at it.....
Then think about making an impression with girls
Dude...its easy to dance
Get that in your head
Every song has a rythm , something like
1 2 1 2 .... or 1 1 2 ...
move your body according to the beats
later when you feel a bit more comfortable , start going along with the vocals
First and foremost make your self comfortable on the dance floor
Have fun while you're at it.....
Then think about making an impression with girls
Learning to dance wont happen from the first time you do it, its like trying to ride a bike, you cant really do it right from the beginning, so just try and try and try some more. Go to a club and dance, invite your friends over, drink and dance some.
Only way to dance good is by practicing. Like with most things in life you have to learn it.
By the time you can do it without thinking about your moves you can say that you learned how to dance.
Only way to dance good is by practicing. Like with most things in life you have to learn it.
By the time you can do it without thinking about your moves you can say that you learned how to dance.