"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Cant Dance

saber101

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My school is having a dance in the next three weeks or so and i absolutely cannot dance. I really want to learn, especially because there are new grade nines in my school this year, and i want to make an impression. Anyone got any tips, websites or links on how to dance/grind club style or whatever?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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eminence

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just follow the girls movements, she'll lead you when grinding. press your groin against her ass and go with her movements, if shes moving her hips side to side, move yours with hers in sequence.

watch other people do it, i still dont think im that great at it either, just try to relax and have fun....or if you cant do that try some liquid confidence before the dance.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lordson

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^^^ hahahahaha, yes, liquid confidance works

bottom line is, nobody really gives a fuk how you dance, unless youre an aboslute retard, as long as you seem to be moving rhytmically its fine

girls will not care unless your either really really good, in which case theyll just comment on how good you are, nothign more, or really really Mr.Bean like
 

nicenomore

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Its easy

Dude...its easy to dance
Get that in your head

Every song has a rythm , something like
1 2 1 2 .... or 1 1 2 ...

move your body according to the beats
later when you feel a bit more comfortable , start going along with the vocals


First and foremost make your self comfortable on the dance floor
Have fun while you're at it.....
Then think about making an impression with girls
 

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Learning to dance wont happen from the first time you do it, its like trying to ride a bike, you cant really do it right from the beginning, so just try and try and try some more. Go to a club and dance, invite your friends over, drink and dance some.

Only way to dance good is by practicing. Like with most things in life you have to learn it.

By the time you can do it without thinking about your moves you can say that you learned how to dance.
 
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