"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Can't believe this chick

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h_amati

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I'm dating this other girl, have gone out only once. We text regularly, I keep my texts c&f. This weekend she's away at the beach. She sent me a picture of the sunset, jokingly I asked for a picture of her in a bikini, she sent that too.

Thing is I know from her twitter account that she is with a guy there and posting pictures of that. She doesn't know or doesn't care I can see she's with another guy. Obviously she never mentioned she was going with this guy and she sent pictures of her alone.

1. This other guy is just a friend (doubtful).
2. She's boning this guy and they are not exclusive.
3. She's whoring for attention.

I have not replied to her message of the bathing suit picture. Should I?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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FairShake

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Sure, why not?

You can probably bang. But don't put too much into it. If you don't get it early, get out early.
 
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Hmmm.....I hate this scenario. I mean WTF are you supposed to think? No doubt she'll play the insecurity card on you if you ask her what's going on. I tend to stay away from women like this they just end up doing your head in.
 
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You asked for the pic, so respond. You dated her one time, you can't expect her to be married to you. Unless you two spoke of exclusivity on that first date? ;)

p.s. Don't go getting all needy and asking about the dude. I's one date, at this point you don't care, right!? Be cool.
 
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I agree with fairshake
get a date and try to bang her, if she lets you, you got a lay
other wise move on and try to spin more plates
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why do you even care? She's not your girl. Feel lucky she's sending you pics of her in a bikini and take it from there. If you play it cool and don't over react like a fool, you will bone this girl. As an example, recently I picked up a girl who is seeing someone. Asked what she was doing later that night and told me she was poolsiding with this dude, I said cool then I told her to text me a pic of your in a bikini. She didn't do it, but that didn't stop me from having sex with her ONE WEEK LATER even tho she was seeing some other guy. Girls like to @#$%, and I lucked out with one - cause I didn't get jealous of another dude like an AFC.
 
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