"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Can't believe this chick

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h_amati

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I'm dating this other girl, have gone out only once. We text regularly, I keep my texts c&f. This weekend she's away at the beach. She sent me a picture of the sunset, jokingly I asked for a picture of her in a bikini, she sent that too.

Thing is I know from her twitter account that she is with a guy there and posting pictures of that. She doesn't know or doesn't care I can see she's with another guy. Obviously she never mentioned she was going with this guy and she sent pictures of her alone.

1. This other guy is just a friend (doubtful).
2. She's boning this guy and they are not exclusive.
3. She's whoring for attention.

I have not replied to her message of the bathing suit picture. Should I?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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FairShake

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Sure, why not?

You can probably bang. But don't put too much into it. If you don't get it early, get out early.
 
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Hmmm.....I hate this scenario. I mean WTF are you supposed to think? No doubt she'll play the insecurity card on you if you ask her what's going on. I tend to stay away from women like this they just end up doing your head in.
 
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Johnnyventana

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You asked for the pic, so respond. You dated her one time, you can't expect her to be married to you. Unless you two spoke of exclusivity on that first date? ;)

p.s. Don't go getting all needy and asking about the dude. I's one date, at this point you don't care, right!? Be cool.
 
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I agree with fairshake
get a date and try to bang her, if she lets you, you got a lay
other wise move on and try to spin more plates
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why do you even care? She's not your girl. Feel lucky she's sending you pics of her in a bikini and take it from there. If you play it cool and don't over react like a fool, you will bone this girl. As an example, recently I picked up a girl who is seeing someone. Asked what she was doing later that night and told me she was poolsiding with this dude, I said cool then I told her to text me a pic of your in a bikini. She didn't do it, but that didn't stop me from having sex with her ONE WEEK LATER even tho she was seeing some other guy. Girls like to @#$%, and I lucked out with one - cause I didn't get jealous of another dude like an AFC.
 
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