"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Can't believe this chick

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h_amati

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I'm dating this other girl, have gone out only once. We text regularly, I keep my texts c&f. This weekend she's away at the beach. She sent me a picture of the sunset, jokingly I asked for a picture of her in a bikini, she sent that too.

Thing is I know from her twitter account that she is with a guy there and posting pictures of that. She doesn't know or doesn't care I can see she's with another guy. Obviously she never mentioned she was going with this guy and she sent pictures of her alone.

1. This other guy is just a friend (doubtful).
2. She's boning this guy and they are not exclusive.
3. She's whoring for attention.

I have not replied to her message of the bathing suit picture. Should I?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FairShake

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Sure, why not?

You can probably bang. But don't put too much into it. If you don't get it early, get out early.
 
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Spinning Spinning

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Hmmm.....I hate this scenario. I mean WTF are you supposed to think? No doubt she'll play the insecurity card on you if you ask her what's going on. I tend to stay away from women like this they just end up doing your head in.
 
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Johnnyventana

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You asked for the pic, so respond. You dated her one time, you can't expect her to be married to you. Unless you two spoke of exclusivity on that first date? ;)

p.s. Don't go getting all needy and asking about the dude. I's one date, at this point you don't care, right!? Be cool.
 
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I agree with fairshake
get a date and try to bang her, if she lets you, you got a lay
other wise move on and try to spin more plates
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why do you even care? She's not your girl. Feel lucky she's sending you pics of her in a bikini and take it from there. If you play it cool and don't over react like a fool, you will bone this girl. As an example, recently I picked up a girl who is seeing someone. Asked what she was doing later that night and told me she was poolsiding with this dude, I said cool then I told her to text me a pic of your in a bikini. She didn't do it, but that didn't stop me from having sex with her ONE WEEK LATER even tho she was seeing some other guy. Girls like to @#$%, and I lucked out with one - cause I didn't get jealous of another dude like an AFC.
 
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