I've been in a relationship now for 6 months and first 4 months was great - little drama, girl was respectful of space and generally very happy. It feels like over night at the 4 month stage I got extremely serious with the girl and I know she's picked up on that and the dynamics changed. The other night she asked me about what I said to my mate about her and it was nothing major but for whatever reason my mate told her friend's boyfriend and he told his gf and then she told my gf like Chinese whispers and the actual statement changed. Now, I know I should just have a word with my mate and I told my gf why you stressing relax that's not what I said but I get very anxious in these situations, over thinking and becoming so consumed with my emotions that it fcuks me up.
Since changing my ways and becoming a man about things about 2 years ago I haven't felt like this but now I'm starting to lose my sh#t. All this social media gets to me too with my gf messaging me on fb it's like instant message and she's there and if I reply and she doesn't I get anxious. I'm just being raw with you guys here about how I feel.
I want to love her and be with her and I also know that if I really start showing my anxiety then she'll leave. I'm not terrified of her leaving me because of anxiety I'm kicking myself because I am getting so anxious.
Since changing my ways and becoming a man about things about 2 years ago I haven't felt like this but now I'm starting to lose my sh#t. All this social media gets to me too with my gf messaging me on fb it's like instant message and she's there and if I reply and she doesn't I get anxious. I'm just being raw with you guys here about how I feel.
I want to love her and be with her and I also know that if I really start showing my anxiety then she'll leave. I'm not terrified of her leaving me because of anxiety I'm kicking myself because I am getting so anxious.
