"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cant´have children, it starts to bother me

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Since my early twenties i know i cant´have children of myself (also not possible with medical help). It was a shock to hear but oke, i was young and thought there are worse things that can happen to, it didn´t bother me too much. Now i am in my mid thirties and see people of my age having young children. My ex girlfriend gave birth to a child last january. I believe one of the reasons that my relationship ended with her was because that i couldn´t gave her children.
At this point in my it does starts to bother me and i also start to believe that woman might feel less or totally not attracted to me as soon they know i can´t give them children. I am not sure this is the right way to think but for the moment i don´t know how to handle with this.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I agree, if you want children that bad you should consider adoption
 
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Sorry to hear that you can't naturally conceive a woman. It's definitely not a positive thing, but life's not perfect.

If you really do want kids in the future, find a woman who is open to adoption. That's the only way I see it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LittleBigOne said:
I believe one of the reasons that my relationship ended with her was because that i couldn´t gave her children.
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There's one thing I've learned over time... Women will actually deal with the idea of being child-free if they value the man more than they value being pregnant.

I tell every[/] woman I date that I've had a vasectomy and it has NEVER stopped them from entering a relationship with me.

When you enter your relationships, be up front about this issue instead of leading her on and trying to hide it. She'll respect you more and it will be her choice to remain with a man who cannot get her pregnant.

There's all kinds of upsides and options to this issue:

1) No worry about pregnancy. Get her checked for STDs and then you don't have to worry about condoms and birth control pills.
2) If she wants to have a kid bad enough, get her to find a way for you to have one.
3) Date a single mom who had the father fvck off entirely. I've seen lots of attractive women on POF with newborn infants who don't have a father in their life.
4) You can always adopt or artificially inseminate.
 
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F**k having children!

Child support, school, baby clothes, feeding, argh!!! Can't blow that kind of money for 18 years!
 
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