"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Cant´have children, it starts to bother me

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Since my early twenties i know i cant´have children of myself (also not possible with medical help). It was a shock to hear but oke, i was young and thought there are worse things that can happen to, it didn´t bother me too much. Now i am in my mid thirties and see people of my age having young children. My ex girlfriend gave birth to a child last january. I believe one of the reasons that my relationship ended with her was because that i couldn´t gave her children.
At this point in my it does starts to bother me and i also start to believe that woman might feel less or totally not attracted to me as soon they know i can´t give them children. I am not sure this is the right way to think but for the moment i don´t know how to handle with this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I agree, if you want children that bad you should consider adoption
 
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Sorry to hear that you can't naturally conceive a woman. It's definitely not a positive thing, but life's not perfect.

If you really do want kids in the future, find a woman who is open to adoption. That's the only way I see it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LittleBigOne said:
I believe one of the reasons that my relationship ended with her was because that i couldn´t gave her children.
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There's one thing I've learned over time... Women will actually deal with the idea of being child-free if they value the man more than they value being pregnant.

I tell every[/] woman I date that I've had a vasectomy and it has NEVER stopped them from entering a relationship with me.

When you enter your relationships, be up front about this issue instead of leading her on and trying to hide it. She'll respect you more and it will be her choice to remain with a man who cannot get her pregnant.

There's all kinds of upsides and options to this issue:

1) No worry about pregnancy. Get her checked for STDs and then you don't have to worry about condoms and birth control pills.
2) If she wants to have a kid bad enough, get her to find a way for you to have one.
3) Date a single mom who had the father fvck off entirely. I've seen lots of attractive women on POF with newborn infants who don't have a father in their life.
4) You can always adopt or artificially inseminate.
 
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F**k having children!

Child support, school, baby clothes, feeding, argh!!! Can't blow that kind of money for 18 years!
 
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