"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Canned Material!

PersistenceIsKey

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Does anyone want to share their favorite canned material for opening and initial attraction?

I'm fine with saying hey, nice to meet you, my name is Alex, etc.

But what HAPPENS AFTER THAT???

My go to lines (and they aren't even lines!) for now are:

-How do you guys know each other?
-Where are you from? I noticed that you... etc

WHAT ARE SOME CANNED LINES OR TOPICS TO FALL BACK ON???

Anyone want to share?

PM me, I believe a bit of canned material here and there is good for beginners, and I'm very new at actually approaching.

Thanks!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

The Gambler

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It's always good to mention something specific that draws them into the conversation...

* Hey, I noticed that necklace you're wearing.... I don't think I've ever seen anything like it! (NEVER ask where they bought something)

* Your nails look awesome! Did you do 'em yourself? (trust me on this one)

I think you get the idea... Women spend lots of time and effort to look nice for us men. Most guys never notice (or give a compliment) about the details of a woman's appearance. All the ****y/confident bullsh!t can come later.... You gotta get her on board first, you dig?

The Gambler
 

d!ckmojo

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I used some canned material I thought up during the day on thursday to transition from comfort stage into seduction stage that very same night.

I was just at this chick's apartment watching TV and playing around with her when I said "you know, some of my friends pay me out for having an underpants subscription, but don't you think its awesome?"

And she was like "wtf? you have an 'underpants subscription'?, what the hell is that?",

And so I said sort of sarcastically "er, duh.... you pay your subscription fee and you get a new pair of underpants in the post each month"

And she couldn't handle it, she thought is was so funny. And then she wanted to know what they looked like and if they were good and everything, so I told her I was wearing my latest pair right now, and I asked her if she wanted to see them. She said she did so I took off my jeans.

And then I took off my shirt and pretended to be an underpants model for a little bit, and then I encouraged her to start getting naked too, and then, well, it was on.
 
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