"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Canned Material!

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PersistenceIsKey

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Does anyone want to share their favorite canned material for opening and initial attraction?

I'm fine with saying hey, nice to meet you, my name is Alex, etc.

But what HAPPENS AFTER THAT???

My go to lines (and they aren't even lines!) for now are:

-How do you guys know each other?
-Where are you from? I noticed that you... etc

WHAT ARE SOME CANNED LINES OR TOPICS TO FALL BACK ON???

Anyone want to share?

PM me, I believe a bit of canned material here and there is good for beginners, and I'm very new at actually approaching.

Thanks!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It's always good to mention something specific that draws them into the conversation...

* Hey, I noticed that necklace you're wearing.... I don't think I've ever seen anything like it! (NEVER ask where they bought something)

* Your nails look awesome! Did you do 'em yourself? (trust me on this one)

I think you get the idea... Women spend lots of time and effort to look nice for us men. Most guys never notice (or give a compliment) about the details of a woman's appearance. All the ****y/confident bullsh!t can come later.... You gotta get her on board first, you dig?

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I used some canned material I thought up during the day on thursday to transition from comfort stage into seduction stage that very same night.

I was just at this chick's apartment watching TV and playing around with her when I said "you know, some of my friends pay me out for having an underpants subscription, but don't you think its awesome?"

And she was like "wtf? you have an 'underpants subscription'?, what the hell is that?",

And so I said sort of sarcastically "er, duh.... you pay your subscription fee and you get a new pair of underpants in the post each month"

And she couldn't handle it, she thought is was so funny. And then she wanted to know what they looked like and if they were good and everything, so I told her I was wearing my latest pair right now, and I asked her if she wanted to see them. She said she did so I took off my jeans.

And then I took off my shirt and pretended to be an underpants model for a little bit, and then I encouraged her to start getting naked too, and then, well, it was on.
 
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