"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Canned Material!

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PersistenceIsKey

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Does anyone want to share their favorite canned material for opening and initial attraction?

I'm fine with saying hey, nice to meet you, my name is Alex, etc.

But what HAPPENS AFTER THAT???

My go to lines (and they aren't even lines!) for now are:

-How do you guys know each other?
-Where are you from? I noticed that you... etc

WHAT ARE SOME CANNED LINES OR TOPICS TO FALL BACK ON???

Anyone want to share?

PM me, I believe a bit of canned material here and there is good for beginners, and I'm very new at actually approaching.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's always good to mention something specific that draws them into the conversation...

* Hey, I noticed that necklace you're wearing.... I don't think I've ever seen anything like it! (NEVER ask where they bought something)

* Your nails look awesome! Did you do 'em yourself? (trust me on this one)

I think you get the idea... Women spend lots of time and effort to look nice for us men. Most guys never notice (or give a compliment) about the details of a woman's appearance. All the ****y/confident bullsh!t can come later.... You gotta get her on board first, you dig?

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I used some canned material I thought up during the day on thursday to transition from comfort stage into seduction stage that very same night.

I was just at this chick's apartment watching TV and playing around with her when I said "you know, some of my friends pay me out for having an underpants subscription, but don't you think its awesome?"

And she was like "wtf? you have an 'underpants subscription'?, what the hell is that?",

And so I said sort of sarcastically "er, duh.... you pay your subscription fee and you get a new pair of underpants in the post each month"

And she couldn't handle it, she thought is was so funny. And then she wanted to know what they looked like and if they were good and everything, so I told her I was wearing my latest pair right now, and I asked her if she wanted to see them. She said she did so I took off my jeans.

And then I took off my shirt and pretended to be an underpants model for a little bit, and then I encouraged her to start getting naked too, and then, well, it was on.
 
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