"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Cancelling and flipping the script on a possibly flakey chick?

Crossbow

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Not in my case but just wondering if anyone has ever suspected a chick was going to flake on a date and you got in touch with her beforehand to either cut her off at the pass or flip things on her before she had a chance to flake by cancelling first with other plans or just never followed up at all and what result came from it? ( Instead of trying to get her out, chase her, or "create attraction".)

Not that this would accomplish anything or create "value or attraction" but just wondering if any of you wound up seriously expecting a chick to flake and instead you cancelled first by a message or text and what if any results were besides just both of you not bothering to re-schedule.

Did the chick suddenly question it and seem "interested" since you were flaking on her first instead? Or did she try to make new plans with you? Or never hear from her?

Myself if I strongly suspected a flake coming that was beyond my control I'd just cancel with no explaination first and move on.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Crossbow

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Crossbow said:
Not in my case but just wondering if anyone has ever suspected a chick was going to flake on a date and you got in touch with her beforehand to either cut her off at the pass or flip things on her before she had a chance to flake by cancelling first with other plans or just never followed up at all and what result came from it? ( Instead of trying to get her out, chase her, or "create attraction".)

Not that this would accomplish anything or create "value or attraction" but just wondering if any of you wound up seriously expecting a chick to flake and instead you cancelled first by a message or text and what if any results were besides just both of you not bothering to re-schedule.

Did the chick suddenly question it and seem "interested" since you were flaking on her first instead? Or did she try to make new plans with you? Or never hear from her?

Myself if I strongly suspected a flake coming that was beyond my control I'd just cancel with no explaination first and move on.
*On a side note I watched this dudes video on dealing with flakes and found it hilarious as he called this chick who flaked on him twice, recorded the call, and uploaded it in his video filming himself on speakerphone with her. The way the chick laughably bs'd and the way he calmly basically in other words told her she was full of it was great. The call itself is a great example of chicks who will fake "interest" simply for attention till the jig is up. :up: what's even funnier is the chick tried to make like it was his fault! Lmao

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=FSIe27GfnvA
 

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Cancelled our date this weekend with a co-worker because she was not excited for the date and was saying .. "Yes for now but something might come up."

Now she is trying to orbit me but my attraction for her has dropped to the point wherr I could care less.

The look on her face when I told her I cancelled.. priceless.

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