Not in my case but just wondering if anyone has ever suspected a chick was going to flake on a date and you got in touch with her beforehand to either cut her off at the pass or flip things on her before she had a chance to flake by cancelling first with other plans or just never followed up at all and what result came from it? ( Instead of trying to get her out, chase her, or "create attraction".)
Not that this would accomplish anything or create "value or attraction" but just wondering if any of you wound up seriously expecting a chick to flake and instead you cancelled first by a message or text and what if any results were besides just both of you not bothering to re-schedule.
Did the chick suddenly question it and seem "interested" since you were flaking on her first instead? Or did she try to make new plans with you? Or never hear from her?
Myself if I strongly suspected a flake coming that was beyond my control I'd just cancel with no explaination first and move on.
Not that this would accomplish anything or create "value or attraction" but just wondering if any of you wound up seriously expecting a chick to flake and instead you cancelled first by a message or text and what if any results were besides just both of you not bothering to re-schedule.
Did the chick suddenly question it and seem "interested" since you were flaking on her first instead? Or did she try to make new plans with you? Or never hear from her?
Myself if I strongly suspected a flake coming that was beyond my control I'd just cancel with no explaination first and move on.
