"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Cancelling and flipping the script on a possibly flakey chick?

Crossbow

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Not in my case but just wondering if anyone has ever suspected a chick was going to flake on a date and you got in touch with her beforehand to either cut her off at the pass or flip things on her before she had a chance to flake by cancelling first with other plans or just never followed up at all and what result came from it? ( Instead of trying to get her out, chase her, or "create attraction".)

Not that this would accomplish anything or create "value or attraction" but just wondering if any of you wound up seriously expecting a chick to flake and instead you cancelled first by a message or text and what if any results were besides just both of you not bothering to re-schedule.

Did the chick suddenly question it and seem "interested" since you were flaking on her first instead? Or did she try to make new plans with you? Or never hear from her?

Myself if I strongly suspected a flake coming that was beyond my control I'd just cancel with no explaination first and move on.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Crossbow said:
Not in my case but just wondering if anyone has ever suspected a chick was going to flake on a date and you got in touch with her beforehand to either cut her off at the pass or flip things on her before she had a chance to flake by cancelling first with other plans or just never followed up at all and what result came from it? ( Instead of trying to get her out, chase her, or "create attraction".)

Not that this would accomplish anything or create "value or attraction" but just wondering if any of you wound up seriously expecting a chick to flake and instead you cancelled first by a message or text and what if any results were besides just both of you not bothering to re-schedule.

Did the chick suddenly question it and seem "interested" since you were flaking on her first instead? Or did she try to make new plans with you? Or never hear from her?

Myself if I strongly suspected a flake coming that was beyond my control I'd just cancel with no explaination first and move on.
*On a side note I watched this dudes video on dealing with flakes and found it hilarious as he called this chick who flaked on him twice, recorded the call, and uploaded it in his video filming himself on speakerphone with her. The way the chick laughably bs'd and the way he calmly basically in other words told her she was full of it was great. The call itself is a great example of chicks who will fake "interest" simply for attention till the jig is up. :up: what's even funnier is the chick tried to make like it was his fault! Lmao

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=FSIe27GfnvA
 

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Cancelled our date this weekend with a co-worker because she was not excited for the date and was saying .. "Yes for now but something might come up."

Now she is trying to orbit me but my attraction for her has dropped to the point wherr I could care less.

The look on her face when I told her I cancelled.. priceless.

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