hey what do girls think when you cancel a meeting or a date with them? do they see it as hard to get or do they think the same as us and will next us if we dont see them? im talking a girl that really wants to see me not the other way around.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
canceling on a girl
- Thread starter JesterX
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
WORKEROUTER
Master Don Juan
Did this to a chick recently. She got pretty fluttered about it. If she's into you, then you can reschedule. If she's not and wants to be a *****, then you don't want her anyway.
On the same note... I sometimes feel like farting. How do women take farting? Do they take is as a alpha characteristic? Like, she'll think "oh god! If he wasn't alpha he wouldn't fart infront of me!". Will she next me if she sees me doing a fart dance but not actually farting?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Why are you dating just one girl? If you were seeing more then one girl you won't have such a dilemma because you wouldn't really care.JesterX said:hey what do girls think when you cancel a meeting or a date with them? do they see it as hard to get or do they think the same as us and will next us if we dont see them? im talking a girl that really wants to see me not the other way around.
If you really don't want to see the girl and you are just avoiding her(don't act like a pvssy) just tell her its not working out for you and good luck.
DjDamage
Flaking a date will usually increase interest. It signals a lack of desperation and neediness and implies you are a busy man with many choices. Use it as a tactic if you like but defintely don't feel bad about cancelling if it suits you. If she acts pissy, tease her for being desperate and reschedule.