hey what do girls think when you cancel a meeting or a date with them? do they see it as hard to get or do they think the same as us and will next us if we dont see them? im talking a girl that really wants to see me not the other way around.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
canceling on a girl
- Thread starter JesterX
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
WORKEROUTER
Master Don Juan
Did this to a chick recently. She got pretty fluttered about it. If she's into you, then you can reschedule. If she's not and wants to be a *****, then you don't want her anyway.
On the same note... I sometimes feel like farting. How do women take farting? Do they take is as a alpha characteristic? Like, she'll think "oh god! If he wasn't alpha he wouldn't fart infront of me!". Will she next me if she sees me doing a fart dance but not actually farting?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Why are you dating just one girl? If you were seeing more then one girl you won't have such a dilemma because you wouldn't really care.JesterX said:hey what do girls think when you cancel a meeting or a date with them? do they see it as hard to get or do they think the same as us and will next us if we dont see them? im talking a girl that really wants to see me not the other way around.
If you really don't want to see the girl and you are just avoiding her(don't act like a pvssy) just tell her its not working out for you and good luck.
DjDamage
Flaking a date will usually increase interest. It signals a lack of desperation and neediness and implies you are a busy man with many choices. Use it as a tactic if you like but defintely don't feel bad about cancelling if it suits you. If she acts pissy, tease her for being desperate and reschedule.