hey what do girls think when you cancel a meeting or a date with them? do they see it as hard to get or do they think the same as us and will next us if we dont see them? im talking a girl that really wants to see me not the other way around.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
canceling on a girl
- Thread starter JesterX
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
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Master Don Juan
Did this to a chick recently. She got pretty fluttered about it. If she's into you, then you can reschedule. If she's not and wants to be a *****, then you don't want her anyway.
On the same note... I sometimes feel like farting. How do women take farting? Do they take is as a alpha characteristic? Like, she'll think "oh god! If he wasn't alpha he wouldn't fart infront of me!". Will she next me if she sees me doing a fart dance but not actually farting?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Why are you dating just one girl? If you were seeing more then one girl you won't have such a dilemma because you wouldn't really care.JesterX said:hey what do girls think when you cancel a meeting or a date with them? do they see it as hard to get or do they think the same as us and will next us if we dont see them? im talking a girl that really wants to see me not the other way around.
If you really don't want to see the girl and you are just avoiding her(don't act like a pvssy) just tell her its not working out for you and good luck.
DjDamage
Flaking a date will usually increase interest. It signals a lack of desperation and neediness and implies you are a busy man with many choices. Use it as a tactic if you like but defintely don't feel bad about cancelling if it suits you. If she acts pissy, tease her for being desperate and reschedule.