"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Cancel the Third Date

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I've looked for this tip thread but can't find it. The wisdom is:

Schedule a third date and then cancel it. I try to plan this ahead so that I don't have to lie.... try to be honest and sincerely apologetic.

It is both a test of Interest Level and a method of control.

Does anybody else make this a standard practice?

How is it working?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Cancel your 3rd date? Sorry, but that is just stupid.


How about you go on the 3rd date and get laid instead?
 

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I try to make this a consistent practice. From the tip:

"Nice, lonely guys are afraid to do this, but it will increase her interest level in you 10 fold. Works better if she's very pretty. She is not used to it and doesn't expect it!"

It definitely increases interest level. And as far as "getting laid," I think most women have a rule that goes "no sleeping with him until the third date" at a miniumum.
 

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Originally posted by Hemingway
I try to make this a consistent practice. From the tip:

"Nice, lonely guys are afraid to do this, but it will increase her interest level in you 10 fold. Works better if she's very pretty. She is not used to it and doesn't expect it!"

It definitely increases interest level. And as far as "getting laid," I think most women have a rule that goes "no sleeping with him until the third date" at a miniumum.
She should be in love/lust with you after one meeting. If you are giving 100% game everytime you see her, then no date is more or less important then the other.

You entire focus should be to game her into submission every chance you get instead of on a certain date. Date rules are for women, every date a man has he should be going after what he wants, wheather its her mind, her body, or her mind and her body.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Schedule a third date and then cancel it. I try to plan this ahead so that I don't have to lie.... try to be honest and sincerely apologetic.
That idea was a used in the movie "Hitch." He had dude cancel the date he had with the female in a couple of days. Then he counter offered for a date at a party that was going on later that day.

For one, I don't date. I usually invite females to join me where ever i'm going. If they show, game on; if they don't, i just find new women to befriend.

The reason I invite is it takes pressure off you and it shows her that you're going to have fun wheater she's there or not. It also shows your independent status. I prefer places like a pool hall were the music isn't that loud and it doesn't require sitting around.
 
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Games like this are for women, but go ahead, the results are unpredictable.
 

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Stupid advise IMO. What kind of relationship do you expect to have if you have to use silly games to keep her interest - your just buying time if that is the case.
 
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