"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Cancel the Third Date

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I've looked for this tip thread but can't find it. The wisdom is:

Schedule a third date and then cancel it. I try to plan this ahead so that I don't have to lie.... try to be honest and sincerely apologetic.

It is both a test of Interest Level and a method of control.

Does anybody else make this a standard practice?

How is it working?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Cancel your 3rd date? Sorry, but that is just stupid.


How about you go on the 3rd date and get laid instead?
 

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I try to make this a consistent practice. From the tip:

"Nice, lonely guys are afraid to do this, but it will increase her interest level in you 10 fold. Works better if she's very pretty. She is not used to it and doesn't expect it!"

It definitely increases interest level. And as far as "getting laid," I think most women have a rule that goes "no sleeping with him until the third date" at a miniumum.
 

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Originally posted by Hemingway
I try to make this a consistent practice. From the tip:

"Nice, lonely guys are afraid to do this, but it will increase her interest level in you 10 fold. Works better if she's very pretty. She is not used to it and doesn't expect it!"

It definitely increases interest level. And as far as "getting laid," I think most women have a rule that goes "no sleeping with him until the third date" at a miniumum.
She should be in love/lust with you after one meeting. If you are giving 100% game everytime you see her, then no date is more or less important then the other.

You entire focus should be to game her into submission every chance you get instead of on a certain date. Date rules are for women, every date a man has he should be going after what he wants, wheather its her mind, her body, or her mind and her body.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Schedule a third date and then cancel it. I try to plan this ahead so that I don't have to lie.... try to be honest and sincerely apologetic.
That idea was a used in the movie "Hitch." He had dude cancel the date he had with the female in a couple of days. Then he counter offered for a date at a party that was going on later that day.

For one, I don't date. I usually invite females to join me where ever i'm going. If they show, game on; if they don't, i just find new women to befriend.

The reason I invite is it takes pressure off you and it shows her that you're going to have fun wheater she's there or not. It also shows your independent status. I prefer places like a pool hall were the music isn't that loud and it doesn't require sitting around.
 
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Games like this are for women, but go ahead, the results are unpredictable.
 

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Stupid advise IMO. What kind of relationship do you expect to have if you have to use silly games to keep her interest - your just buying time if that is the case.
 
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