"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I've looked for this tip thread but can't find it. The wisdom is:

Schedule a third date and then cancel it. I try to plan this ahead so that I don't have to lie.... try to be honest and sincerely apologetic.

It is both a test of Interest Level and a method of control.

Does anybody else make this a standard practice?

How is it working?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cancel your 3rd date? Sorry, but that is just stupid.


How about you go on the 3rd date and get laid instead?
 
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I try to make this a consistent practice. From the tip:

"Nice, lonely guys are afraid to do this, but it will increase her interest level in you 10 fold. Works better if she's very pretty. She is not used to it and doesn't expect it!"

It definitely increases interest level. And as far as "getting laid," I think most women have a rule that goes "no sleeping with him until the third date" at a miniumum.
 
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Originally posted by Hemingway
I try to make this a consistent practice. From the tip:

"Nice, lonely guys are afraid to do this, but it will increase her interest level in you 10 fold. Works better if she's very pretty. She is not used to it and doesn't expect it!"

It definitely increases interest level. And as far as "getting laid," I think most women have a rule that goes "no sleeping with him until the third date" at a miniumum.
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She should be in love/lust with you after one meeting. If you are giving 100% game everytime you see her, then no date is more or less important then the other.

You entire focus should be to game her into submission every chance you get instead of on a certain date. Date rules are for women, every date a man has he should be going after what he wants, wheather its her mind, her body, or her mind and her body.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Schedule a third date and then cancel it. I try to plan this ahead so that I don't have to lie.... try to be honest and sincerely apologetic.
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That idea was a used in the movie "Hitch." He had dude cancel the date he had with the female in a couple of days. Then he counter offered for a date at a party that was going on later that day.

For one, I don't date. I usually invite females to join me where ever i'm going. If they show, game on; if they don't, i just find new women to befriend.

The reason I invite is it takes pressure off you and it shows her that you're going to have fun wheater she's there or not. It also shows your independent status. I prefer places like a pool hall were the music isn't that loud and it doesn't require sitting around.
 
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Games like this are for women, but go ahead, the results are unpredictable.
 
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Stupid advise IMO. What kind of relationship do you expect to have if you have to use silly games to keep her interest - your just buying time if that is the case.
 
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