I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Oh yes.. chicks from Quebec, with the French influence are the hottest and most sexually liberated. It isn't a coincidence that a lot of strippers in Canada are from Quebec.Dr.Dude said:Hahaha, come to "La belle province" (known as Quebec). We are known as the booze-hounders of Canada. Plus, our 100% canadian chicks are not THAT bad.
(I mean, I'd hit most of 'em. Thrice. :rockon: )
I agree but not in Toronto ( mostly low quality women here who have a sense of entitlment for having a vagina)MrLuvr said:Go to Montreal!!
Word brother.MrLuvr said:Oh yes.. chicks from Quebec, with the French influence are the hottest and most sexually liberated. It isn't a coincidence that a lot of strippers in Canada are from Quebec.
Your regular white canadian girls from anglo saxon stock.. blech.. not too much different from the american girls..
Go to Montreal!!
I haven't seen that in the women from Toronto that I've met, although we weren't on their home turf. I've had some fun with some women from Winnipeg and Nova Scotia although they weren't as sexy as the ones from Toronto. Met some in Thunder Bay too... No comment....DJDamage said:I agree but not in Toronto ( mostly low quality women here who have a sense of entitlment for having a vagina)
Right aboot that, eh.They say aboot.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
most? more like ALLDJDamage said:I agree but not in Toronto ( mostly low quality women here who have a sense of entitlment for having a vagina)
ahh yes they left their social network of Toronto behind so they miss the suplicatting attention they get back home and thus they will be friendlier when they travel. Its not the same creature trust me I've seen the difference as well.Francisco d'Anconia said:I haven't seen that in the women from Toronto that I've met, although we weren't on their home turf.
Yes I noticed that most chicks in Toronto are heavily medicated on some sort of anti-depressant. This explains why they hit the clubs in bus loads and get trashed so they can escape the reality of their sad existence for one night. From what I've seen, Toronto has got to be the number 1 city in the world where feminism has the most impact and success (which also explains why sosuave has probably more members lurking here from the Toronto area then anywhere else in the world).00Kevin said:I've dated many and they are mostly depressed head cases full of feminist garbage .
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Actually, they also take the plane to cancun and practice their horing there. Usually thier boyfriends have no business asking them any questions.DJDamage said:ahh yes they left their social network of Toronto behind so they miss the suplicatting attention they get back home and thus they will be friendlier when they travel. Its not the same creature trust me I've seen the difference as well.
It is something about Toronto I don't get because the quality of women increases the farther you move away from the city.
Yes I noticed that most chicks in Toronto are heavily medicated on some sort of anti-depressant. This explains why they hit the clubs in bus loads and get trashed so they can escape the reality of their sad existence for one night. From what I've seen, Toronto has got to be the number 1 city in the world where feminism has the most impact and success (which also explains why sosuave has probably more members lurking here from the Toronto area then anywhere else in the world).