I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Oh yes.. chicks from Quebec, with the French influence are the hottest and most sexually liberated. It isn't a coincidence that a lot of strippers in Canada are from Quebec.Dr.Dude said:Hahaha, come to "La belle province" (known as Quebec). We are known as the booze-hounders of Canada. Plus, our 100% canadian chicks are not THAT bad.
(I mean, I'd hit most of 'em. Thrice. :rockon: )
I agree but not in Toronto ( mostly low quality women here who have a sense of entitlment for having a vagina)MrLuvr said:Go to Montreal!!
Word brother.MrLuvr said:Oh yes.. chicks from Quebec, with the French influence are the hottest and most sexually liberated. It isn't a coincidence that a lot of strippers in Canada are from Quebec.
Your regular white canadian girls from anglo saxon stock.. blech.. not too much different from the american girls..
Go to Montreal!!
I haven't seen that in the women from Toronto that I've met, although we weren't on their home turf. I've had some fun with some women from Winnipeg and Nova Scotia although they weren't as sexy as the ones from Toronto. Met some in Thunder Bay too... No comment....DJDamage said:I agree but not in Toronto ( mostly low quality women here who have a sense of entitlment for having a vagina)
Right aboot that, eh.They say aboot.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
most? more like ALLDJDamage said:I agree but not in Toronto ( mostly low quality women here who have a sense of entitlment for having a vagina)
ahh yes they left their social network of Toronto behind so they miss the suplicatting attention they get back home and thus they will be friendlier when they travel. Its not the same creature trust me I've seen the difference as well.Francisco d'Anconia said:I haven't seen that in the women from Toronto that I've met, although we weren't on their home turf.
Yes I noticed that most chicks in Toronto are heavily medicated on some sort of anti-depressant. This explains why they hit the clubs in bus loads and get trashed so they can escape the reality of their sad existence for one night. From what I've seen, Toronto has got to be the number 1 city in the world where feminism has the most impact and success (which also explains why sosuave has probably more members lurking here from the Toronto area then anywhere else in the world).00Kevin said:I've dated many and they are mostly depressed head cases full of feminist garbage .
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Actually, they also take the plane to cancun and practice their horing there. Usually thier boyfriends have no business asking them any questions.DJDamage said:ahh yes they left their social network of Toronto behind so they miss the suplicatting attention they get back home and thus they will be friendlier when they travel. Its not the same creature trust me I've seen the difference as well.
It is something about Toronto I don't get because the quality of women increases the farther you move away from the city.
Yes I noticed that most chicks in Toronto are heavily medicated on some sort of anti-depressant. This explains why they hit the clubs in bus loads and get trashed so they can escape the reality of their sad existence for one night. From what I've seen, Toronto has got to be the number 1 city in the world where feminism has the most impact and success (which also explains why sosuave has probably more members lurking here from the Toronto area then anywhere else in the world).