Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Oh yes.. chicks from Quebec, with the French influence are the hottest and most sexually liberated. It isn't a coincidence that a lot of strippers in Canada are from Quebec.Dr.Dude said:Hahaha, come to "La belle province" (known as Quebec). We are known as the booze-hounders of Canada. Plus, our 100% canadian chicks are not THAT bad.
(I mean, I'd hit most of 'em. Thrice. :rockon: )
I agree but not in Toronto ( mostly low quality women here who have a sense of entitlment for having a vagina)MrLuvr said:Go to Montreal!!
Word brother.MrLuvr said:Oh yes.. chicks from Quebec, with the French influence are the hottest and most sexually liberated. It isn't a coincidence that a lot of strippers in Canada are from Quebec.
Your regular white canadian girls from anglo saxon stock.. blech.. not too much different from the american girls..
Go to Montreal!!
I haven't seen that in the women from Toronto that I've met, although we weren't on their home turf. I've had some fun with some women from Winnipeg and Nova Scotia although they weren't as sexy as the ones from Toronto. Met some in Thunder Bay too... No comment....DJDamage said:I agree but not in Toronto ( mostly low quality women here who have a sense of entitlment for having a vagina)
Right aboot that, eh.They say aboot.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
most? more like ALLDJDamage said:I agree but not in Toronto ( mostly low quality women here who have a sense of entitlment for having a vagina)
ahh yes they left their social network of Toronto behind so they miss the suplicatting attention they get back home and thus they will be friendlier when they travel. Its not the same creature trust me I've seen the difference as well.Francisco d'Anconia said:I haven't seen that in the women from Toronto that I've met, although we weren't on their home turf.
Yes I noticed that most chicks in Toronto are heavily medicated on some sort of anti-depressant. This explains why they hit the clubs in bus loads and get trashed so they can escape the reality of their sad existence for one night. From what I've seen, Toronto has got to be the number 1 city in the world where feminism has the most impact and success (which also explains why sosuave has probably more members lurking here from the Toronto area then anywhere else in the world).00Kevin said:I've dated many and they are mostly depressed head cases full of feminist garbage .
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Actually, they also take the plane to cancun and practice their horing there. Usually thier boyfriends have no business asking them any questions.DJDamage said:ahh yes they left their social network of Toronto behind so they miss the suplicatting attention they get back home and thus they will be friendlier when they travel. Its not the same creature trust me I've seen the difference as well.
It is something about Toronto I don't get because the quality of women increases the farther you move away from the city.
Yes I noticed that most chicks in Toronto are heavily medicated on some sort of anti-depressant. This explains why they hit the clubs in bus loads and get trashed so they can escape the reality of their sad existence for one night. From what I've seen, Toronto has got to be the number 1 city in the world where feminism has the most impact and success (which also explains why sosuave has probably more members lurking here from the Toronto area then anywhere else in the world).