You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What is truly shameful is how you paint an entire country as faggots based on one idiot's performance you've read about in a tabloid article. Seriously dude Gawker??? "Today's gossip is tomorrow's news!" :crackup:Burroughs said:truly shameful
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
If I were a more cynical person, I'd spend some time wondering why institutions of authority would discourage non-passive acts of independent bravery.
So anyway, how about those wacky Kardashians?
Repped.Desdinova said:Yeah, I read that story. They're really trying to pussify boys here. Not my boy, he punched out a 4th grader who was pissing him off. Did I mention that my boy is in grade 1? The girls already love him![]()
It isn't just because of this incident that Canada is becoming pussified. Every year my kid's school holds a day called "pink shirt day" to bring up awareness of bullying. I sent my boy to school in blue.The only reason you've even heard about this story is due to the massive public outcry by all the awesome Canadians who are standing behind the kid
As if you would know anything about Sweden. What is it with these generalizations about countries to act all-knowing? Ridiculous. Only 15 percent of Swedes believe in feminism, you will find people of all kinds, same as in Canada, Latvia or wherever. To make that kind of generalization says more about the one making it than about the country.( . )( . ) said:Anyway Burroughs nailed it. Canada is barely behind Sweden in the race for full blown faggotry. Deal with it.
And this fits in the "Mature Man" forum how? That's what the Anything Else spam forum is for. I guess taking two extra seconds to look through the forum titles would be too much work, same as posting anything in the OP about the story behind the link.Burroughs said:
Source?Wolfgang D said:As if you would know anything about Sweden. What is it with these generalizations about countries to act all-knowing? Ridiculous. Only 15 percent of Swedes believe in feminism, you will find people of all kinds, same as in Canada, Latvia or wherever. To make that kind of generalization says more about the one making it than about the country.
What are you a retard? You just wrote an essay length post on faggots in the mature man forum (which was pretty good btw) and now you deem this "spam". Who the fvck are you?Wolfgang D said:And this fits in the "Mature Man" forum how? That's what the Anything Else spam forum is for.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I did read ehre somewhere something about a new fashion of guys using skirts (and not they ware not scotish)Desdinova said:It isn't just because of this incident that Canada is becoming pussified. Every year my kid's school holds a day called "pink shirt day" to bring up awareness of bullying. I sent my boy to school in blue.
There was another event called Best Friends day or some 5hit where all the kids had to wear pink stickers. And it doesn't stop at that. For breast cancer awareness month, they change all the gloves in the hospitals from blue to pink. One of the fire departments here has a pink fire truck. I'm repeatedly seeing men being forced to wear pink here, and it really sickens me. I'm only waiting to see men be forced to wear skirts to raise awareness or rape victims or some 5hit.
That would be erm....Sweden! not so much fashion, but I suppose if you have the legs for such a daring move...Alvafe said:I did read ehre somewhere something about a new fashion of guys using skirts (and not they ware not scotish)
well also we can say Justin biber is from canada need anything more?
good thing your kid have you desd.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.