I know its a stupid question but im curious, beacuse I have been getting grey hair and I feel dumb. im only 18 and I dont know if I should continue or what. im starting to feel depressed and crap. so someone please help me out. and is anyone else like this also?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
can you still be a DJ with grey hair?
- Thread starter killbill
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
there is this thing called hair die. use it.
Docs
Banned
Stop complaining about minor insecurities and become one! A gray hair means nothing, you aren't dead yet.
I've been greying since about 19-20. It's quite obvious now (I'm 28). I used to dye it, but many women have told me they like it as it looks sophisticated.
Besides, it doesn't hinder George Clooney's appeal to the women.
Besides, it doesn't hinder George Clooney's appeal to the women.
mahon83050
Banned
Amen to that. This should be common knowledge.
Man going gray: Not a bad thing, some women find it sexy
Woman going gray: Not a good thing
I am 28 and have some gray hairs and I hope I get more.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ShizamDaMan
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I got a lot of gray hairs, it's not the end of the world. You have to ask yourself, are girls dating you for your hair, or your person as a whole?
I think that should pretty much sum up how much this should worry you.
I think that should pretty much sum up how much this should worry you.
Phantasmal
Senior Don Juan
Quoted for truth
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.