I know its a stupid question but im curious, beacuse I have been getting grey hair and I feel dumb. im only 18 and I dont know if I should continue or what. im starting to feel depressed and crap. so someone please help me out. and is anyone else like this also?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
can you still be a DJ with grey hair?
- Thread starter killbill
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
there is this thing called hair die. use it.
Docs
Banned
Stop complaining about minor insecurities and become one! A gray hair means nothing, you aren't dead yet.
I've been greying since about 19-20. It's quite obvious now (I'm 28). I used to dye it, but many women have told me they like it as it looks sophisticated.
Besides, it doesn't hinder George Clooney's appeal to the women.
Besides, it doesn't hinder George Clooney's appeal to the women.
mahon83050
Banned
Amen to that. This should be common knowledge.
Man going gray: Not a bad thing, some women find it sexy
Woman going gray: Not a good thing
I am 28 and have some gray hairs and I hope I get more.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
ShizamDaMan
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I got a lot of gray hairs, it's not the end of the world. You have to ask yourself, are girls dating you for your hair, or your person as a whole?
I think that should pretty much sum up how much this should worry you.
I think that should pretty much sum up how much this should worry you.
Phantasmal
Senior Don Juan
Quoted for truth
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.