I know its a stupid question but im curious, beacuse I have been getting grey hair and I feel dumb. im only 18 and I dont know if I should continue or what. im starting to feel depressed and crap. so someone please help me out. and is anyone else like this also?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
can you still be a DJ with grey hair?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
there is this thing called hair die. use it.
Docs
Banned
Stop complaining about minor insecurities and become one! A gray hair means nothing, you aren't dead yet.
I've been greying since about 19-20. It's quite obvious now (I'm 28). I used to dye it, but many women have told me they like it as it looks sophisticated.
Besides, it doesn't hinder George Clooney's appeal to the women.
Besides, it doesn't hinder George Clooney's appeal to the women.
mahon83050
Banned
Amen to that. This should be common knowledge.
Man going gray: Not a bad thing, some women find it sexy
Woman going gray: Not a good thing
I am 28 and have some gray hairs and I hope I get more.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ShizamDaMan
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I got a lot of gray hairs, it's not the end of the world. You have to ask yourself, are girls dating you for your hair, or your person as a whole?
I think that should pretty much sum up how much this should worry you.
I think that should pretty much sum up how much this should worry you.
Phantasmal
Senior Don Juan
Quoted for truth
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.