"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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can you reask a girl for her number if

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the first time u asked you didn't develop enough rapport, weren't dressed well or weren't prepared etc...but u feel that there is some interest on her part had u been prepared ?

basically i m looking for a response to this thread http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=125676
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Because a number ask is techincally a standing offer.

it's not like she forgot you asked for her number and you shoot he down. If she likes what she sees, she will just strt jotting the number down or make some clear reference that she "needs" to give you her number

I had this happen to me befoe.. actually my last GF. The first time I saw her, I was in a hurry, I had just got out the gym, sweety, etc in dillards lookign for some colonge to go out later that night. She was nice, very nice, but said she was seeing someone.

oh well

I came back 2 weeks later looking for a fathers day gift, dressed to the 9.. I couldn't get her to stop following me around. We went to eat on the lunch in the lunch court, then asked if I wanted ot take her out later on.. I said how am i going to dot hat without your number? and she jotted it down
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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thanks!

actually i asked for her email but i m goona give it another try .this time go for the number..this time dressed up hehe
 
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