"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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can you reask a girl for her number if

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the first time u asked you didn't develop enough rapport, weren't dressed well or weren't prepared etc...but u feel that there is some interest on her part had u been prepared ?

basically i m looking for a response to this thread http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=125676
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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No

Because a number ask is techincally a standing offer.

it's not like she forgot you asked for her number and you shoot he down. If she likes what she sees, she will just strt jotting the number down or make some clear reference that she "needs" to give you her number

I had this happen to me befoe.. actually my last GF. The first time I saw her, I was in a hurry, I had just got out the gym, sweety, etc in dillards lookign for some colonge to go out later that night. She was nice, very nice, but said she was seeing someone.

oh well

I came back 2 weeks later looking for a fathers day gift, dressed to the 9.. I couldn't get her to stop following me around. We went to eat on the lunch in the lunch court, then asked if I wanted ot take her out later on.. I said how am i going to dot hat without your number? and she jotted it down
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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thanks!

actually i asked for her email but i m goona give it another try .this time go for the number..this time dressed up hehe
 
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