"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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can you reask a girl for her number if

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the first time u asked you didn't develop enough rapport, weren't dressed well or weren't prepared etc...but u feel that there is some interest on her part had u been prepared ?

basically i m looking for a response to this thread http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=125676
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Because a number ask is techincally a standing offer.

it's not like she forgot you asked for her number and you shoot he down. If she likes what she sees, she will just strt jotting the number down or make some clear reference that she "needs" to give you her number

I had this happen to me befoe.. actually my last GF. The first time I saw her, I was in a hurry, I had just got out the gym, sweety, etc in dillards lookign for some colonge to go out later that night. She was nice, very nice, but said she was seeing someone.

oh well

I came back 2 weeks later looking for a fathers day gift, dressed to the 9.. I couldn't get her to stop following me around. We went to eat on the lunch in the lunch court, then asked if I wanted ot take her out later on.. I said how am i going to dot hat without your number? and she jotted it down
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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thanks!

actually i asked for her email but i m goona give it another try .this time go for the number..this time dressed up hehe
 
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