"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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can you reask a girl for her number if

KneghtRyder

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the first time u asked you didn't develop enough rapport, weren't dressed well or weren't prepared etc...but u feel that there is some interest on her part had u been prepared ?

basically i m looking for a response to this thread http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=125676
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Because a number ask is techincally a standing offer.

it's not like she forgot you asked for her number and you shoot he down. If she likes what she sees, she will just strt jotting the number down or make some clear reference that she "needs" to give you her number

I had this happen to me befoe.. actually my last GF. The first time I saw her, I was in a hurry, I had just got out the gym, sweety, etc in dillards lookign for some colonge to go out later that night. She was nice, very nice, but said she was seeing someone.

oh well

I came back 2 weeks later looking for a fathers day gift, dressed to the 9.. I couldn't get her to stop following me around. We went to eat on the lunch in the lunch court, then asked if I wanted ot take her out later on.. I said how am i going to dot hat without your number? and she jotted it down
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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thanks!

actually i asked for her email but i m goona give it another try .this time go for the number..this time dressed up hehe
 
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