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Can you increase her IL over email?

mecca411

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I know that the phone is not the best way to do this, but does the same go for email? I met this girl a couple weeks ago and she lives a couple hours away so I can't see her too often. I'm not really into the phone talky thing cuz it gets old kinda quick. I've got her email. What kind of things should I write her about?
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Originally posted by mecca411
I'm not really into the phone talky thing cuz it gets old kinda quick.
That is a really fvcked attitude..
I am sorry bro..
It shows that you are very scared of women.
You will get no where with women if you are a wuss and you can't fvcking call/interact in person with her.
so stop making fvcked up excuses like that, grab your balls and go for it..... life is short to be mental masturbating about stupid meaningless shyt..
 

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Re: Re: Can you increase her IL over email?

Originally posted by chicksrock
That is a really fvcked attitude..
I am sorry bro..
It shows that you are very scared of women.
You will get no where with women if you are a wuss and you can't fvcking call/interact in person with her.
so stop making fvcked up excuses like that, grab your balls and go for it..... life is short to be mental masturbating about stupid meaningless shyt..
I think he means extended phone conversations... which are, of course, a pretty **** idea from my point of view.

The answer to your original question is that it's really not an easy / worthwhile thing to do. You really need to get out and spend time with her.
 
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