"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

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Can you increase her IL over email?

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mecca411

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I know that the phone is not the best way to do this, but does the same go for email? I met this girl a couple weeks ago and she lives a couple hours away so I can't see her too often. I'm not really into the phone talky thing cuz it gets old kinda quick. I've got her email. What kind of things should I write her about?
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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chicksrock

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Originally posted by mecca411
I'm not really into the phone talky thing cuz it gets old kinda quick.
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That is a really fvcked attitude..
I am sorry bro..
It shows that you are very scared of women.
You will get no where with women if you are a wuss and you can't fvcking call/interact in person with her.
so stop making fvcked up excuses like that, grab your balls and go for it..... life is short to be mental masturbating about stupid meaningless shyt..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Re: Re: Can you increase her IL over email?

Originally posted by chicksrock
That is a really fvcked attitude..
I am sorry bro..
It shows that you are very scared of women.
You will get no where with women if you are a wuss and you can't fvcking call/interact in person with her.
so stop making fvcked up excuses like that, grab your balls and go for it..... life is short to be mental masturbating about stupid meaningless shyt..
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I think he means extended phone conversations... which are, of course, a pretty **** idea from my point of view.

The answer to your original question is that it's really not an easy / worthwhile thing to do. You really need to get out and spend time with her.
 
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