"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Can you increase her IL over email?

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mecca411

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I know that the phone is not the best way to do this, but does the same go for email? I met this girl a couple weeks ago and she lives a couple hours away so I can't see her too often. I'm not really into the phone talky thing cuz it gets old kinda quick. I've got her email. What kind of things should I write her about?
Thanks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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chicksrock

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Originally posted by mecca411
I'm not really into the phone talky thing cuz it gets old kinda quick.
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That is a really fvcked attitude..
I am sorry bro..
It shows that you are very scared of women.
You will get no where with women if you are a wuss and you can't fvcking call/interact in person with her.
so stop making fvcked up excuses like that, grab your balls and go for it..... life is short to be mental masturbating about stupid meaningless shyt..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Re: Re: Can you increase her IL over email?

Originally posted by chicksrock
That is a really fvcked attitude..
I am sorry bro..
It shows that you are very scared of women.
You will get no where with women if you are a wuss and you can't fvcking call/interact in person with her.
so stop making fvcked up excuses like that, grab your balls and go for it..... life is short to be mental masturbating about stupid meaningless shyt..
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I think he means extended phone conversations... which are, of course, a pretty **** idea from my point of view.

The answer to your original question is that it's really not an easy / worthwhile thing to do. You really need to get out and spend time with her.
 
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