"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Can you have TOO MANY plates?
- Thread starter Sofomore
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
I try to be as honest as possible with all my plates and a girl will not be my plate unless she brings something to the table (some sort of asset). So the more plates the more assets.
LostAndConfused
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Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Sometimes I like chilling at home in sweatpants, cooking dinner for myself. And there have been weeks when I'm overbooked socially (and with plates).
So to a lot of guys on this board, that sounds like a good problem. But every now and then, it can be a pain
Scars
Master Don Juan
Agreed. Sometimes I hit a dry spell and have zero plates, other times I have 5+ plates and getting laid consistently, but it's hassle just to hang out with ONE of them. It's funny how that works, whenever you're getting laid and you're busy all the time every woman wants you, but when you're in a lull and "looking" they seem to scatter.Iceberg said:
These days, I usually have one or two to toss around back and forth with, but to be honest, I'm generally pretty busy these days. I only put aside one or two days a week to try and get laid. If it happens, great. If not, I have other ambitions that I focus on.
But to answer your question, yes there have been times where I was spinning too many plates at once. In these instances, you either get deemed a player (which in reality, is not ALWAYS a bad thing) or a flake (which was mostly my case). A flake being someone who makes plans and then breaks them, which works well with girls sometimes, but after a number of times it's get tiresome and they simply give up. There's some hot piece of ass, that wanted a piece but I blew it off, for whatever reason, and now they simply think I'm a joke. I'd say just be cautious, but be strategic. If you know a girl has high interest, then you have some give. Try and hit up some "maybes" first, and if it doesn't work out, then you always have the for-sures to fall back on. That's the way I've always played it. Some girls will wait until 3am to fvck you, others, not so much. Play the game right, but understand at the same time that there is a time limit for everything. If anything, shag a girl as much as you can before she starts bringing up the relationship BS or things get weird and then move onto the next, but don't try fvcking every hot girl you see, unless you are simply dry. But if things are going well, try not to push your luck too much. But hey, I'm only 22. But that's what I've learned so far in my days.
-Scars
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.