"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Can you guys offer any tips?

DJ24SEVEN

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My job puts me in the position to talk with beautiful women on a daily basis. In order for these women to get jobs, they must cross me first.

Now, I don't plan to make this a habit, but I'd like to use my "power" once to pursuade a woman to sleep with me for the job. I wanna do this for 2 reasons. One, these girls are hot. Two, why not?

Anyway, these jobs are in the entertainment industry. I go to the homes of beautiful women as part of the screening phase.

I know it depends on the model's attitude and values regarding sex. But for those women that can be persuaded, how should I phrase my offer.

BAD:

If we ****, you got the job.

GOOD:

???

I'm not interested in hearing about morals and all that jazz. This will be a one time thing plus no one's getting hurt.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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FreeStyleZ

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whats your job? what do you do? If its the porn industry just be up front about it.
 

Engetsu

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WTF? I'm against shìt like this. Go slam your car door on your testicles or something...
 

smooth666

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You can aswell rape a girl. This is not a huge difference to me!
This is a board for people who like to work on their game and personality to attract women to sleep with them. Not to force them.
Get lost!
 

Desdinova

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Invite her out to dinner so you can discuss the final details of the job. Then lay your game on her.

That's about all I can suggest.

BTW, you may run the risk of getting fired should one of them complain that she didn't get the job because she didn't sleep with you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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christz

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if a bytch is worth loseing your job over like what happend to me. And it isn't

go right on ahead and do that buddy
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by christz
if a bytch is worth loseing your job over like what happend to me. And it isn't

go right on ahead and do that buddy
I agree.
 

Tha Realnezz

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Honestly-this is something men do but never talk about,feel me?
 

gruby

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ACtually i would like to know what to do in those cases too...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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