"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Can you guys offer any tips?

DJ24SEVEN

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My job puts me in the position to talk with beautiful women on a daily basis. In order for these women to get jobs, they must cross me first.

Now, I don't plan to make this a habit, but I'd like to use my "power" once to pursuade a woman to sleep with me for the job. I wanna do this for 2 reasons. One, these girls are hot. Two, why not?

Anyway, these jobs are in the entertainment industry. I go to the homes of beautiful women as part of the screening phase.

I know it depends on the model's attitude and values regarding sex. But for those women that can be persuaded, how should I phrase my offer.

BAD:

If we ****, you got the job.

GOOD:

???

I'm not interested in hearing about morals and all that jazz. This will be a one time thing plus no one's getting hurt.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FreeStyleZ

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whats your job? what do you do? If its the porn industry just be up front about it.
 

Engetsu

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WTF? I'm against shìt like this. Go slam your car door on your testicles or something...
 

smooth666

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You can aswell rape a girl. This is not a huge difference to me!
This is a board for people who like to work on their game and personality to attract women to sleep with them. Not to force them.
Get lost!
 

Desdinova

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Invite her out to dinner so you can discuss the final details of the job. Then lay your game on her.

That's about all I can suggest.

BTW, you may run the risk of getting fired should one of them complain that she didn't get the job because she didn't sleep with you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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christz

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if a bytch is worth loseing your job over like what happend to me. And it isn't

go right on ahead and do that buddy
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by christz
if a bytch is worth loseing your job over like what happend to me. And it isn't

go right on ahead and do that buddy
I agree.
 

Tha Realnezz

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Honestly-this is something men do but never talk about,feel me?
 

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ACtually i would like to know what to do in those cases too...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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