“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Can you guys give personal examples of good "kissing situations"?

seth03

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I was just influenced by the post "good night, terrible ending", and wanted to know if you guys could give examples of unique or different situations in which you have gone in for a kiss, and succeeded. For example, "uniassign", a member of susave, replied to the post "good night, terrible ending" with this tip (in bold writing):

"I decide to take it a bit further. I put the guitar back in the stand and just put my arm around her and pull her close. Everything is going great at this point. She's in my bed cuddling, were alone, Im stroking her hair... I decide to go for the kiss."

I think that was the killer in her eyes. You should have kissed her here:

"I had my arm around her helping her get the fingering patterns and everything"

whilst you were giving help with her "fingering"


I thought that this idea was right on the mark, so I was wondering if you guys had any other situations you've been in, or try to get yourselves in, in order to put in a well timed and not awkward kiss to get things started.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have a new kiss approach I'm gonna field test this saturday.

Start out with a "Hey, You've got something on your cheek" opener.

When she touches, or reacts, w/e, introduce yourself, get her name and make fluff talk for a little.

Then say, "Hold on, it's still there. Close your eyes for a sec and let me get it (it's supposed to be on her cheek, which is conveniently close to her eyes).

When she closes her eyes, give her a small peck kiss on the cheek, you know like a split second kindergarten-kiss kinda thing.

Then, to close, I'll say something like "Well, I got it off. (smile wickedly) Continue this conversation with me saturday at 6 over a cup of coffee. What's your number?"


"It" can be a food speck or something before the kiss then after it just tell her you made it up if she asks ;)

Man, this will have like a close to 100% pass rate.
 

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scenery usually does it, i was with this girl in niagara falls, we walked down a path where no one was, amazing kiss happened on the first date.

Great scenery, nobody around, good stuff.
 

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I had asked this girl from work out tonight. We went and had a cop of coffe and the usual. When we were walking around afterwards we (I, really) stopped for a while and talked a bit, I had my arm around her waist. She was shaking, it was cold. Not that cold, tough.

I was just thinking about if I should kiss her on our first date when she was babbling away - I remembered her saying earlier that she can't stop babbling when she's nervous.

She was nervous and babbling. I just said "Shut up" and kissed her smack on the mouth.

She kissed me back and even came for a second taste!
 

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I'm gonna try this...more of a funny one not so much "romantic" or anything.

"I will bet you one quarter I can kiss you on the lips without our lips making any contact at all."

She says uh ok or whatever.

Kiss her on the lips then say:

"Oh well, worth every penny."

haha just for sh!ts n giggles dont take it seriously guys!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by tryin 2 play
I'm gonna try this...more of a funny one not so much "romantic" or anything.

"I will bet you one quarter I can kiss you on the lips without our lips making any contact at all."

She says uh ok or whatever.

Kiss her on the lips then say:

"Oh well, worth every penny."

haha just for sh!ts n giggles dont take it seriously guys!
I have heard this one before.
 

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Originally posted by dirtyvibe
I have a new kiss approach I'm gonna field test this saturday.

Start out with a "Hey, You've got something on your cheek" opener.

When she touches, or reacts, w/e, introduce yourself, get her name and make fluff talk for a little.

Then say, "Hold on, it's still there. Close your eyes for a sec and let me get it (it's supposed to be on her cheek, which is conveniently close to her eyes).

When she closes her eyes, give her a small peck kiss on the cheek, you know like a split second kindergarten-kiss kinda thing.

Then, to close, I'll say something like "Well, I got it off. (smile wickedly) Continue this conversation with me saturday at 6 over a cup of coffee. What's your number?"


"It" can be a food speck or something before the kiss then after it just tell her you made it up if she asks ;)

Man, this will have like a close to 100% pass rate.
I look foward to hearing the result to this one.
 

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man thats bordering on sexual harrasemsent

u jsut kissed her without being invited

if you're lucky youll just get a slap on teh face, rather than a kick in the balls like u deserve if u ever do this
 

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Originally posted by lordson
man thats bordering on sexual harrasemsent

u jsut kissed her without being invited

if you're lucky youll just get a slap on teh face, rather than a kick in the balls like u deserve if u ever do this
do you want a hand written invitation signed and notarized???:rolleyes:

i dont necessarily agree with the agressiveness of the approach (i'd wait for some good IOI's first) i'm definitely not going to wait for her fathers blessing to kiss the damn girl.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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To initiate a kiss, I sometimes tap my lips with my index finger and say, "Put it there!"

Seems to do the trick!
 
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