Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Can you guys give personal examples of good "kissing situations"?

seth03

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I was just influenced by the post "good night, terrible ending", and wanted to know if you guys could give examples of unique or different situations in which you have gone in for a kiss, and succeeded. For example, "uniassign", a member of susave, replied to the post "good night, terrible ending" with this tip (in bold writing):

"I decide to take it a bit further. I put the guitar back in the stand and just put my arm around her and pull her close. Everything is going great at this point. She's in my bed cuddling, were alone, Im stroking her hair... I decide to go for the kiss."

I think that was the killer in her eyes. You should have kissed her here:

"I had my arm around her helping her get the fingering patterns and everything"

whilst you were giving help with her "fingering"


I thought that this idea was right on the mark, so I was wondering if you guys had any other situations you've been in, or try to get yourselves in, in order to put in a well timed and not awkward kiss to get things started.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dirtyvibe

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I have a new kiss approach I'm gonna field test this saturday.

Start out with a "Hey, You've got something on your cheek" opener.

When she touches, or reacts, w/e, introduce yourself, get her name and make fluff talk for a little.

Then say, "Hold on, it's still there. Close your eyes for a sec and let me get it (it's supposed to be on her cheek, which is conveniently close to her eyes).

When she closes her eyes, give her a small peck kiss on the cheek, you know like a split second kindergarten-kiss kinda thing.

Then, to close, I'll say something like "Well, I got it off. (smile wickedly) Continue this conversation with me saturday at 6 over a cup of coffee. What's your number?"


"It" can be a food speck or something before the kiss then after it just tell her you made it up if she asks ;)

Man, this will have like a close to 100% pass rate.
 

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scenery usually does it, i was with this girl in niagara falls, we walked down a path where no one was, amazing kiss happened on the first date.

Great scenery, nobody around, good stuff.
 

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I had asked this girl from work out tonight. We went and had a cop of coffe and the usual. When we were walking around afterwards we (I, really) stopped for a while and talked a bit, I had my arm around her waist. She was shaking, it was cold. Not that cold, tough.

I was just thinking about if I should kiss her on our first date when she was babbling away - I remembered her saying earlier that she can't stop babbling when she's nervous.

She was nervous and babbling. I just said "Shut up" and kissed her smack on the mouth.

She kissed me back and even came for a second taste!
 

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I'm gonna try this...more of a funny one not so much "romantic" or anything.

"I will bet you one quarter I can kiss you on the lips without our lips making any contact at all."

She says uh ok or whatever.

Kiss her on the lips then say:

"Oh well, worth every penny."

haha just for sh!ts n giggles dont take it seriously guys!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by tryin 2 play
I'm gonna try this...more of a funny one not so much "romantic" or anything.

"I will bet you one quarter I can kiss you on the lips without our lips making any contact at all."

She says uh ok or whatever.

Kiss her on the lips then say:

"Oh well, worth every penny."

haha just for sh!ts n giggles dont take it seriously guys!
I have heard this one before.
 

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Originally posted by dirtyvibe
I have a new kiss approach I'm gonna field test this saturday.

Start out with a "Hey, You've got something on your cheek" opener.

When she touches, or reacts, w/e, introduce yourself, get her name and make fluff talk for a little.

Then say, "Hold on, it's still there. Close your eyes for a sec and let me get it (it's supposed to be on her cheek, which is conveniently close to her eyes).

When she closes her eyes, give her a small peck kiss on the cheek, you know like a split second kindergarten-kiss kinda thing.

Then, to close, I'll say something like "Well, I got it off. (smile wickedly) Continue this conversation with me saturday at 6 over a cup of coffee. What's your number?"


"It" can be a food speck or something before the kiss then after it just tell her you made it up if she asks ;)

Man, this will have like a close to 100% pass rate.
I look foward to hearing the result to this one.
 

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man thats bordering on sexual harrasemsent

u jsut kissed her without being invited

if you're lucky youll just get a slap on teh face, rather than a kick in the balls like u deserve if u ever do this
 

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Originally posted by lordson
man thats bordering on sexual harrasemsent

u jsut kissed her without being invited

if you're lucky youll just get a slap on teh face, rather than a kick in the balls like u deserve if u ever do this
do you want a hand written invitation signed and notarized???:rolleyes:

i dont necessarily agree with the agressiveness of the approach (i'd wait for some good IOI's first) i'm definitely not going to wait for her fathers blessing to kiss the damn girl.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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To initiate a kiss, I sometimes tap my lips with my index finger and say, "Put it there!"

Seems to do the trick!
 
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