"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Can you get a girl only using C&F?

Smectron

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There's this girl I've been talking to over msn for almost a year now and two months ago we began studying at the same university. We don't go in the same class so we don't meet that often but sometimes we go to the library to study. As you can figure out I'm not studying, I always make jokes about her and using C&F all the way. She's not studying either cause she's laughing all the time. The whole C&F thing is working out great and I mix this with some kino. Like putting my legs over hers under the table, pushing her around, holding her back when she tries to take a book or pencil from me and so forth.
The thing is that I think this girl is great. I love her looks and personality and we always have fun when we're together. I want to move on to a serious relationship but I don't know how to do that only using C&F. And I don't wanna tell her about how I feel since that would put me back in AFC behavior.

I guess C&F is good to show hot women that I don't care about how hot they are, I'm confident enough to joke about them and almost be rude but when you meet a girl and want to go further than a one-night-stand....does C&F still work?
So my question is how do I make her feel so attracted to me that she'll go into a relationship with me? Because right now this C&F thing makes me feel like we're just friends having a great time.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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woods

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If its sexual C+F, she should be responding, if shes interested like that.
 

banGbro

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mmmm, I havent read past I talked to her on msn for over a year
 
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