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Can you eat oatmeal raw?

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organizedconfusion said:
what what i benefit from lying about such a thing? that's plain ridiculis.
eat a cup of shredded raw oatmeal blended in milk or protein shake and tell me how you feel in about an hour...
i meant provide credible links (ie to pubmed research) indicating that fiber does all the things you say it does.
anyone can publish a book about anything, credible or not.
i put a cup of raw oats in my shredded wheat every morning, and i feel fine. it gives me a steady supply of energy throughout the morning.
 

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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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reyalp said:
i meant provide credible links (ie to pubmed research) indicating that fiber does all the things you say it does.
anyone can publish a book about anything, credible or not.
i put a cup of raw oats in my shredded wheat every morning, and i feel fine. it gives me a steady supply of energy throughout the morning.
it's a drink or do you cook the wheat and oats? because it's different than raw,grounded and in a shake. I am sure there are plenty of credible links on fiber being bad but i have nor the time to look it all up :wave: much to lazy, i could-but it would just be a waste of time and effort,i'd rather do something else.
 

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organizedconfusion said:
it's a drink or do you cook the wheat and oats? because it's different than raw,grounded and in a shake. I am sure there are plenty of credible links on fiber being bad but i have nor the time to look it all up :wave: much to lazy, i could-but it would just be a waste of time and effort,i'd rather do something else.
i open the container of oats, dip in a 1 cup scoop, and dump it on top of my cereal. then i add milk and eat it. i can't stand the texture of cooked oatmeal. :p

pubmed searches are easy, btw
 

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reyalp said:
i open the container of oats, dip in a 1 cup scoop, and dump it on top of my cereal. then i add milk and eat it. i can't stand the texture of cooked oatmeal. :p

pubmed searches are easy, btw
how big is the cup? 8oz small cup or 30 grams- kinda like the size of a scoop from a inside a protein shake jug? if you're chewing it with ceral it mixes up and becomes somewhat predigested with the cereal and milk,it's totally different than blending it into a protein shake and gulping it down.plus the chewing action itself produces enzymes and saliva further breaking down the foods you are chewing and helping it digest it even further.this greatly helps the digestion process.i have tried the whole raw oats,protein,milk thing..and it was horrible,it tasted like a cross between paper mache and sand water or something similarly disgusting..it came out the other way that same way as well :whistle:
 

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organizedconfusion You're a retard.

The author is wrong on so many levels. He's an illiterate and the intro statements have tons of mistakes in them.

As suspected, he's an atkinson advocate.

It's a shockbook designed to generate sales by the virtue of its atrocious statements.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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organizedconfusion said:
it's a drink or do you cook the wheat and oats? because it's different than raw,grounded and in a shake. I am sure there are plenty of credible links on fiber being bad but i have nor the time to look it all up :wave: much to lazy, i could-but it would just be a waste of time and effort,i'd rather do something else.

So, you could be wrong about something but don't want to figure out what is REALLY going on because you're too lazy and "would rather do something else"? Great way to approach things...
 

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organized confusion is an appropriate name...except for the organized part. this is more ridiculous than most of the other 'X is bad for you' screeds that get posted here from time to time.

anyone who listens to you deserves what they get......
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
So, you could be wrong about something but don't want to figure out what is REALLY going on because you're too lazy and "would rather do something else"? Great way to approach things...
no, i have no time to waste on people that won't listen anyways.And tyring to prove a point on a seduction forum about certain health issues is a waste of time.Wasted effort and personaly,if you don't want to listen then i don't really care :up:
 

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i can't wait for the obit on that:

"died of too much fiber intake"
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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Hey organizedconfusion, I have bowel problems that could not be diagnosed. a specialist thought I had celiac disease for a while. Anyway I know you don't like me because of my posts on "the secret" but I have eaten raw oats with milk my whole life. I will start cooking them now and see if i notice a differance.

So what do you think about bread? I've been eating rye bread because it's high fiber and I dont like eating too much weat. What do u think?

I hate it when people wont consider that anything is bad for them just because there doing it and they're not in hospital.
 

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Throttle said:
organized confusion is an appropriate name...except for the organized part. this is more ridiculous than most of the other 'X is bad for you' screeds that get posted here from time to time.

anyone who listens to you deserves what they get......
I had respect for you before. Now i have less.
 

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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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organizedconfusion said:
so raw oats in milk caused the bowel problems they said ?
no. they could not find the problem. I just think it might be all them weet-bix and raw oats. I used to eat over 10 weet-bix every morning. sometimes dinner too

what do you eat for your carbs. potato?

so does cooked oats have no fiber?

Help me out here. I would really apreaciate any info. what do you eat?
 
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