You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
i meant provide credible links (ie to pubmed research) indicating that fiber does all the things you say it does.organizedconfusion said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
it's a drink or do you cook the wheat and oats? because it's different than raw,grounded and in a shake. I am sure there are plenty of credible links on fiber being bad but i have nor the time to look it all up :wave: much to lazy, i could-but it would just be a waste of time and effort,i'd rather do something else.reyalp said:
i open the container of oats, dip in a 1 cup scoop, and dump it on top of my cereal. then i add milk and eat it. i can't stand the texture of cooked oatmeal.organizedconfusion said:
how big is the cup? 8oz small cup or 30 grams- kinda like the size of a scoop from a inside a protein shake jug? if you're chewing it with ceral it mixes up and becomes somewhat predigested with the cereal and milk,it's totally different than blending it into a protein shake and gulping it down.plus the chewing action itself produces enzymes and saliva further breaking down the foods you are chewing and helping it digest it even further.this greatly helps the digestion process.i have tried the whole raw oats,protein,milk thing..and it was horrible,it tasted like a cross between paper mache and sand water or something similarly disgusting..it came out the other way that same way as wellreyalp said:i open the container of oats, dip in a 1 cup scoop, and dump it on top of my cereal. then i add milk and eat it. i can't stand the texture of cooked oatmeal.
pubmed searches are easy, btw
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
organizedconfusion said:
no, i have no time to waste on people that won't listen anyways.And tyring to prove a point on a seduction forum about certain health issues is a waste of time.Wasted effort and personaly,if you don't want to listen then i don't really careSkilla_Staz said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
wow,like i even knew you existed before anyways turd :yawn:mrRuckus said:
so raw oats in milk caused the bowel problems they said ?wolf116 said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
no. they could not find the problem. I just think it might be all them weet-bix and raw oats. I used to eat over 10 weet-bix every morning. sometimes dinner tooorganizedconfusion said:
he was quoting throttle u d1ck head u just insulted sum1 who was sticking up 4 uorganizedconfusion said: