"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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By that I mean a certain diet and possibly exercise program.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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First 2 natural ideas that come to my mind are; Red Light therapy and every time you wash your hair, scrub your scalp like you're trying to wash peanutbutter out, really stimulate those follicles.
 

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Keep whatya got healthy and growing.
Take biotin (B7) vitamins if you’re not eating enough eggs, milk, bananas…
 

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Maybe... I started losing my hair in 2000 and ever since I've been eating cleaner it has really slowed down. But then again my hairline looks just like my dad's, and I look just like him. He's now in his 70s and his hair looks the same as it has for the past 20 years.

Genes are pretty much everything when it comes to hair loss. Look at the men in your family and those are your options.

Rogaine does work, but you have to use it continuously once you start and it's not cheap.
 

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Keep whatya got healthy and growing.
Take biotin (B7) vitamins if you’re not eating enough eggs, milk, bananas…
How much might alcohol consumption play into this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Maybe... I started losing my hair in 2000 and ever since I've been eating cleaner it has really slowed down. But then again my hairline looks just like my dad's, and I look just like him. He's now in his 70s and his hair looks the same as it has for the past 20 years.

Genes are pretty much everything when it comes to hair loss. Look at the men in your family and those are your options.

Rogaine does work, but you have to use it continuously once you start and it's not cheap.
Is your hairline M shaped/widows peak? How deep is it?
 

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Keep your hormones in check, have a healthy diet and that's it. Saw palmetto and all those other holistic approaches won't stop a genetic deficiency. Your only real option in fighting hairloss is finasteride.
 

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Keep your hormones in check, have a healthy diet and that's it. Saw palmetto and all those other holistic approaches won't stop a genetic deficiency. Your only real option in fighting hairloss is finasteride.
I like dutasteride and believe it works better. Hair loss is mainly inherited from your maternal grandfather’s dna, if he’s bald, you eventually will be also.
 

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I like dutasteride and believe it works better. Hair loss is usually inherited from the maternal grandfather’s genes, if he’s bald, you will eventually be also.
Yeah that as well
 

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Is your hairline M shaped/widows peak? How deep is it?
Yes. maybe 2 1/2 inches. My dad is the same. All in all I drew the short

...every time you wash your hair, scrub your scalp like you're trying to wash peanutbutter out, really stimulate those follicles.
This is a myth.

I've also heard the one that you shouldn't wear a hat because it causes your hair to fall out.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yes. maybe 2 1/2 inches. My dad is the same. All in all I drew the short


This is a myth.

I've also heard the one that you shouldn't wear a hat because it causes your hair to fall out.
Good to know. Anecdotally it was effective.
 

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The day comes closer you'll have to OWN that bald scalp of yours. Nothing is worse than a man with a receding hairline trying to deny it.

Work out. Being bald and being overweight won't attract women. Being bald while being ripped on the other hand...some inspirational pictures;

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Yes.

Derek from More Plates More Dates has covered this extensively. You can selectively block BDNF and androgen receptors in your hair follicles, you can stimulate hair growth, and many other things (I don't know the details since I haven't needed to do anything yet). He was balding himself and had a whole routine going to restore his hairline.

At some point though, with certain genetics there is nothing you can do except transplants. But, transplants have come a long way in the past 30 years or so, they're pretty damn good now.
 
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Should I shave it all clean just yet though? I still have hair up top.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Looks like diffuse thinning brother. Probably best to shave it off and grow the beard.
 

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The day comes closer you'll have to OWN that bald scalp of yours. Nothing is worse than a man with a receding hairline trying to deny it.

Work out. Being bald and being overweight won't attract women. Being bald while being ripped on the other hand...some inspirational pictures;

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All those men have varying degrees of African ancestry. It's well-known that black men have it easier pulling off the bald look.
 

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Should I shave it all clean just yet though? I still have hair up top.
It’s your head, do what you want that keeps you feeling good about yourself. Life lets you know when a change is needed.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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