"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Can you call this a flake or not?

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So i have contact for years already with a girl from abroad. First time we met was a short meeting and we made out. We had a few other meetings during the years but nothing happened because both or at least one of us was in an ltr. Now we are both single and meet up in another country for a weekend. We booked our flights but the problem is the accomodation. She definitely wants a single room for her own because she says she sleeps awfull with other people in the room. To me BS and very annoying because i don't like to pay far much more for accomodations!
So, can you call this a flake? And does this mean her interest level is low? Well, at least, she wants to go on holiday with me and i feel there is more. But i am aware that it is possible that i mix up reality and my thoughts.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Lol. Stop anaylising.

She probably just doesn't want to appear whorish. Pay for the room, get there, and game her so she wants to come back to yours!
 
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WesCottII said:
Lol. Stop anaylising.

She probably just doesn't want to appear whorish. Pay for the room, get there, and game her so she wants to come back to yours!
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Some DJ's with other opinions here? I agree i have this problem that i (over) analyze. I want to get rid of that.
 
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LittleBigOne said:
So i have contact for years already with a girl from abroad. First time we met was a short meeting and we made out. We had a few other meetings during the years but nothing happened because both or at least one of us was in an ltr. Now we are both single and meet up in another country for a weekend. We booked our flights but the problem is the accomodation. She definitely wants a single room for her own because she says she sleeps awfull with other people in the room. To me BS and very annoying because i don't like to pay far much more for accomodations!
So, can you call this a flake? And does this mean her interest level is low? Well, at least, she wants to go on holiday with me and i feel there is more. But i am aware that it is possible that i mix up reality and my thoughts.
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Let her do this. If the chemistry is right, and she is drunk enough she will land up in her room, or you in hers. If it is not right, you will get the "We're better off as friends" speech.
 
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